Subtlety

What keeps me so interested in bazi is not just entirely on the predicting part but it is about learning some of the nuances.

Personality analysis based on bazi (not DISC or MBTI) is one of my favourite subjects. But you need to really have an intimate knowledge of the 10 Gods followed by frequent corroboration between the bazi and the person to know some of the subtle differences among the stars – particularly the behavioral part.

If your boss is born with a negative output structure, and you did not meet her expectation, she will blatantly tell you into your face "Did you not use your brain?"

However, if hers is a positive structure, then she will tactfully tell you "I think you could have done better if you have factored in this or that. Kindly review your work and see me again tomorrow. Thanks."

Say you make a grave mistake and your boss decided to fire you. If he is a 7 Killing structure, you will hear him yelling at you "You have made a very big mistake and I need you to get lost within 24 hours."

If he is a direct officer structure, he will say "Under section 2 paragraph 1 of the employment agreement, we would need to terminate your service with us as you have caused the company to suffer losses as a result of negligence which is defined as ….."

Next, do you want to learn from a teacher who is using hurting officer or direct input? Frankly, it depends on your personal preference.

H.O. teacher will tell you "I will teach you how to fish and not fish for you. Now, buy my book on how to fish."

D.I. teacher will elaborate on the various methods to fish, the benefits and go the extra mile to cook the fish for you."

Imagine you plan to go to a posh restaurant with someone you are dating. Would you choose to go with a guy with positive wealth star or negative one?

The former will happily foot the bill and tell you dinner is on him while the latter will tell you this time round is on him FIRST!

For the same scenario but at a buffet, a positive friend star guy will be happy if his partner had enough for her dinner while a negative friend star guy will be happy if his partner can also help him hide some food in her handbag for supper later.

No offence guys. Just for laugh.